Frequently Asked Questions

I. For Our Private Clients

  • I work exclusively with high-net-worth (HNW) and ultra-high-net-worth (UHNW) men—typically entrepreneurs and executive leaders between 30 and 60—who have the professional side of life figured out but are exhausted by the "noise" of modern dating. My clients are high-performers looking for a genuine, intentional connection with someone whose lifestyle, values, and energy align with their own. I focus on finding that rare balance where both people feel they've met their match.

  • Definitely. While I’m based in Charlotte, NC, my search is completely borderless. I regularly facilitate introductions in major hubs like NYC, San Francisco, Austin, LA, and Chicago. My network is national, which means I can conduct a dedicated search for you regardless of where you (or potential matches) currently call home.

  • Most big agencies feel like "dating factories"—you get passed to a junior rep who doesn't really know you. Better Matchmaking is founder-led, meaning you work directly with me. Because every search is unique, my pricing is bespoke. We’ll talk about your goals and the intensity of the search you need, then build a plan that actually makes sense for you.

  • Discretion is the whole foundation of my business. Everything we do is 100% offline and confidential. Your profile and status are never on an app or a public site. I work entirely behind the scenes, conducting private outreach to ensure your personal life stays personal while I identify high-caliber matches within your specific social tier.

  • I'm built for the busy professional, so I'm as high-touch or low-touch as you want. Some clients like a weekly strategy chat; others just want a text when I've found a "wow" match. Aside from our initial call and a quick chat after each date, I handle 100% of the heavy lifting—the scouting, vetting, and scheduling.

  • Of course. Many of my clients are entrepreneurs with multiple residences or intense travel schedules. I coordinate everything around your calendar. Whether you're splitting time between coasts or traveling for business, I manage the logistics with executive-level care so your dating life never feels like "work."

II. The Better Matchmaking Process

  • It's the difference between a slot machine and a private concierge. There is no swiping, no "hey" messages, and zero ghosting. Everything is human-led and offline. I personally vet every individual through one-on-one interviews to ensure that the foundational compatibility, shared values, and lifestyle alignment are present before an introduction is even considered. My goal is to remove the guesswork so you can focus on the connection.

  • Since this is a bespoke search, I don't do "one-size-fits-all" packs. Most clients choose a package of 3, 6, or 9 introductions. My goal is to make sure every single introduction is a high-value use of your time and aligned with your specific search criteria.

  • It's the difference between a slot machine and a private concierge. There is no swiping, no "hey" messages, and zero ghosting. Everything is human-led and offline. I vet every single person through one-on-one interviews to make sure the chemistry and lifestyle alignment are actually there.

  • We work at the pace of your lifestyle. Because our service is bespoke, we tailor our communication and involvement to your specific needs. Some clients prefer weekly strategy sessions and high-touch consulting, while others prefer a "concierge" approach where we only reach out when a highly-aligned match is ready for introduction. Aside from the initial discovery and post-date feedback, we handle 100% of the logistics—vetting, scheduling, and coordination—so your only "job" is to show up to curated introductions with an open mind.

  • Honestly? That is completely okay. Chemistry is a wildcard—sometimes it’s a lightning strike, and other times it’s a slow burn that grows as you get to know someone. Think of our "debrief" as a low-pressure way for us to touch base. You tell me what you enjoyed and where the spark was (or wasn't) felt. This isn't about "fixing" a search; it’s about me getting to know your nuances even better so our next steps feel even more intentional. Whether we’re pivoting or leaning in, it’s a partnership, and I’m in it with you until it feels right.

III. For the Singles Pool

  • Joining our Private Member Database is complimentary for both men and women. I am always looking for exceptional, high-caliber individuals—professionals, creatives, and leaders—who are over the apps and looking for something more intentional. While I don't "search" specifically for database members, I am constantly screening this pool to find matches for my private clients, as well as collaborating with a national network of boutique matchmakers who may be seeking someone exactly like you.

  • My clients are typically entrepreneurs, CEOs, and visionary leaders in their late20s to mid60s who have reached the pinnacle of their careers and are now ready to prioritize their personal lives. These are high-achievers who are seeking a partner who is their true peer—someone who matches their intellect, ambition, and zest for life. They’ve hired me to facilitate private, respectful introductions because they value a genuine connection and a partner who shares their world.

  • Better Matchmaking is focused exclusively on long-term, committed relationships. I don't facilitate casual dating or temporary arrangements. Whether I am matching you with one of my own clients or a client from a trusted partner, the goal is always a lasting, respectful connection based on mutual respect and real potential.

  • Your privacy is my priority. Your profile is 100% private and offline. It is never hosted on a public-facing site. Your information is only seen by my internal team and trusted professional colleagues. I only share your details with a potential match after I've received your consent to do so.

  • Once you submit your application, you're in our private network. If your lifestyle and values align with one of my active HNW clients (or a client of a colleague), I'll reach out to schedule a private screening interview. It's a low-pressure way for me to get to know you beyond your photos and ensure we're focusing on foundational compatibility.

  • While my primary focus is my own private searches, I am deeply connected within the national matchmaking community. Sometimes, a member of my database is the perfect fit for a search being conducted by one of my colleagues. If I believe a match outside of my immediate firm is worth your time, I may facilitate that introduction to ensure you’re seeing the highest caliber of opportunities available.

  • I am always happy to help exceptional people navigate this industry. If you are looking for a firm that offers a different type of dedicated search, I can provide a professional referral to a trusted partner within my network who aligns with your specific goals. I only refer to matchmakers I know and trust to maintain my same standards of discretion and excellence.